Max Watts live on the Channel M Breakfast Show

Enabling people to raise their confidence and assisting people to improve their relationships is an area of expertise for Max Watts.  Featured on the Channel M Breakfast Show, Max Watts discussed the role of personal confidence and self belief playing an important role in meeting that special someone.  Max focused on practical tips on how to initially meet that special person, highlighting the need for people to be happy in themselves first instead of expecting someone else to create their happiness and to avoid the impact of putting too much pressure on a relationship. 

Max Watts believes that the breakdown of relationships is due to three things - unfulfilled strategies, negative anchoring and lack of effective communication.  We have strategies for everything we do, a strategy is a specific syntax of external and internal experience which consistently produces a specific outcome, for example we have strategies for love, sex, attraction and recognising attraction.   At the beginning stages of a relationship those strategies may be frequently fulfilled due to the effort and range of activities that new couples engage in.  Problems occur when the key elements of a specific strategy are consistently unfulfilled - for example lets take the deep love strategy - it may be that a key element includes hearing those special words 'I love you' or it may be they need to looked at or touched in a certain way.  Often people do those things for their partner that they would like themselves - however this may not be, and often isn't, what the other partner needs.  NLP relationship coaching identifies those key strategies including the attraction, recognising attraction and deep love strategy.  When these are shared between the couple, each individual will then know what they need to do for their partner to know they are totally loved.  

In a relationship, negative anchoring can take place - that is where a partner actually becomes an anchor for negative emotions.  If every time an individual has an argument or negative emotions are created whilst looking at their partner or hearing their voice, then eventually just speaking to that person, seeing that person or even thinking about their partner can lead them to instantly and unconsciously access those same negative emotions for example anger, sadness, fear, hurt, guilt or anxiety.  Ultimately this accumulation of negative emotions can lead to relationship breakdown.   NLP relationship coaching aims to remove that negative anchoring through a range of advanced NLP techniques and through using Time Line Therapy which assists individuals to letting go of negative emotions from the past.

Developing communication skills often is critical to assisting couples to begin to express themselves more fully and efficiently.   NLP relationship coaching also provides each individual with helpful techniques so that they can begin to be in full control of their emotions, and to personally develop leading to greater levels of personal happiness, confidence and security.   Emotional and sexual expression is developed, leading to greater levels of satisfaction and happiness in the relationship. 

There is one thing that precedes NLP relationship coaching that Max Watts believes is critical to the success of relationship coaching and that is that the following question is replied to with a resounding 'YES!' from both partners ...'Is this relationship worth saving and improving?'

Max Watts followed up her advice by offering NLP relationship coaching to anyone who wants to improve their relationship, and who are experiencing less satisfaction and happiness than they deserve. 

If you are interested in NLP Relationship Coaching then please contact Max Watts at Kanousei now quoting MAXWATTS - CHANNEL M